Archive | March 2013

90% to 30


30, the exciting and formidable age of becoming a grown up, is just around the corner.  At age 27 I am 90% of the way there.  By then I should manage to have a respectable career, respectable bank account, respectable repertoire of amusing life experiences, a push up bra and a toolbox.  But what about just before?  Where “should” those of us in our late twenties be?

Answer: anywhere.

The beauty of our generation is that the definitions have broadened; the expectations become more second-guessed; the white picket fences more grey.  So lads and lasses – take advantage.  We are the pioneers of “the twenties”.  We are among the first to be gifted a decade with little requirements other than to find ourselves and experience life.  So, let’s do our best and do our worst, our sloppiest and our most outrageous.  Do it now before babies, mortgages and 401Ks demand otherwise.  But let’s do it with a purpose – our own purpose.  As my step-mom has told me since we became great friends twenty years ago, “You can do anything you want, but you can’t do everything.  So choose wisely.”

For those of you trying to figure out how to spend the remainder of your twenties, here are a few recommendations.

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